Friday, November 9, 2012

Have you being taken granted for?

Love offers you a feeling of security. A security that makes your life worth living. It gives you reasons to make someone smile on a regular basis. It's great to have someone love you back. Someone whom you can take granted for, only because you are sure of the love you showered them with. 

Being taken granted for is generally associated with negativity, but I think it's a great feeling. Someone who takes you for granted would always come back to you, because you offer them something not everyone in the world can offer. I can be a bit preachy in my writing style, ignore to notice that. But what I'm trying to say is, I know we hate being taken for granted, and at the same time it's a great feeling when you know that you'd be approached for something only can offer. It's sad when you are in it, but it feels great when you look back at it. 

There are people I've taken granted for. People generally can't bear that feeling, so they leave. So, only my family and a few of the friends has stood by my side, even when I take them for granted. They make me feel secured. Sometimes, I feel guilty that I make them go through so much of shit. Sometimes, its annoying while sometimes- it's just love. 





4 comments:

Jack said...

Ritika,

I know it is intoxicating feeling when someone takes you for granted. However I feel that you may be happy at being taken for granted but you should never take anyone for granted as that will never lead you to disappointments.

Take care

Jack said...

Ritika,

I think I left a comment here few days ago but it seems to have vanished into thin air.

Take care

Ritika said...

I am sorry Uncle Jack. Havent been writing enough here these days. so forgot to accept the comment.

Raajii said...

Somehow we have all been taken for granted at one time or another and we have also done the same. I dont know when we will truly learn. Sigh.